Red Flags Sometimes Feel Like "Home" here's how

Your partner:

Refuses to accept responsbility.

Your family dynamics:

Parents may have been in charge, overly critical and domineering ; you may have felt lonely, unloved, unseen.

Your partner:

Their actions don't match their words.

Your family dynamics:

Being consistently let down by your parents; grew up hearing empty promises.

Your partner:

Is controlling and possesive.

Your family dynamics:

Saw parents move on after issues as if nothing happened: forgive and forget without changed behaviour.

Your partner:

Often needs saving; focus is on them

Your family dynamics:

Being the caretaker in the family, having adult duties, sacrificing your own needs for others

Your partner:

Makes you feel not good enough

Your family dynamics:

Parents having high-expectations and placing a big focus on 'doing', being shown conditional love